By Louise Kinross
I could hardly believe my eyes when this New York Times piece popped into my feed yesterday: Donald Trump and his Team of Morons.
Way back in 2012 I wrote to Philip Corbett, the Times' then associate managing editor of Standards, to criticize the paper's use of the words "retarded" and "imbecile" in headlines.
On Oct. 26 of that year, Corbett wrote to say "our health editor and our mental-health reporter both agree that we should give stronger guidance to the newsroom about the use of 'retarded.' I will be working with them to draft a new style note."
Retarded. Imbecile. Morons. They're interchangeable, and they all originate from medical words used to describe people with intellectual disability.
Seven long years ago, the American Psychiatric Association stated that "Mental retardation is no longer used internationally [as a medical term] or in U.S. federal legislation."
The words retarded, imbecile and moron are not neutral words. They are slurs used to demean a marginalized population. Odd that the Times would continue to use them, when its own style guide counsels neutral language and respect for "preferred group descriptors."
People with intellectual disabilities have spoken. Everyone is familiar with the 'R-word: Spread the word to end the word' campaign. Almost a million people signed a pledge at the website in support of ditching the use of the word retard for a simple reason: It hurts people.
Imagine if the Times, instead of using the word 'morons,' had selected a word that stigmatizes a different group. What if they had written "Donald Trump and his Team of Psychos." Would anyone on the news desk have raised a red flag? Probably, because people with mental illness are a more powerful group than those with intellectual disabilities.
Why, at arguably the world's best news organization, are editors incapable of coming up with something more imaginative and neutral than a slur for a headline? Why didn't they try: "Donald Trump and his Team of Twits." Anyone can be a twit. A twit is not associated with any devalued group. A twit, as described in the dictionary, is neutral: "an insignificant, silly or bothersome person."
In a back and forth correspondence with me in 2013, Corbett wrote: "While imbecile,' 'moron' and 'idiot' were all used in the past to refer to people with intellectual disabilities, I don't think most modern readers or speakers of English make any such connection today."
It doesn't matter what individual staff at The New York Times "think." It matters that the paper follows its style guide and shows respect for marginalized groups. A memo to staff on ableism is in order.
By Louise Kinross
There are so many wonderful media stories on new ways of thinking about disability and adaptation at the moment.
Let's start with this interview with A. Laura Brody in VoyageLA. Laura is a costume maker and designer who "[re-imagines] wheelchairs, walkers, and mobility scooters as works of art," she says. "My interest in mobility devices came from dealing with a former boyfriend's stroke. I was fascinated by wheelchairs, walkers, and any other devices that help people move and adapt. However, I couldn't understand why their designs were so cold, clinical and hideous. They were almost insultingly ugly." I pulled the photos above of a wheelchair Laura turned into an Edwardian throne from her website Opulent Mobility.
This afternoon I heard another wonderful CBC Tapestry episode hosted by Canadian singer songwriter Christa Couture. BLOOM interviewed Christa in the spring, after a maternity photo shoot she did with her prosthetic leg went viral. Christa had her leg amputated as a young teen to treat cancer.
Last month Christa did a series of Tapestry interviews on Rethinking Disability. They include a talk with Eli Clare, author of Brilliant Imperfection: Grappling with Cure, who is an American poet and activist with cerebral palsy. "On an individual level, my cerebral palsy is defined as 'trouble,' both medically and culturally," he says. "And yet, I don't have any idea who I'd be without tremoring hands, slurring speech, tight muscles and a rattling walk. So the idea that my cerebral palsy could be cured, in other words taken away as if it never existed, would totally and completely change who I am." This interview blew my mind.
Christa also interviewed Halifax sex educator Kaleigh Trace on how she came to love her body, including a disability she acquired in a car accident as a child. And Christa talked with Toronto's StopGap founder Luke Anderson on the merits of identity first vs. person first disability language.
The Tapestry episode this afternoon included a candid interview with Amy Silverman, author of My Heart Can't Believe It. Amy is an American journalist who learned she wasn't as accepting of diversity as she thought when her daughter Sophie was born with Down syndrome. "We all have something that rocks our world ... that is a challenge that we think we could absolutely never meet," she says.
Finally, this Tapestry interview with Simon Paradis, a musician who suffered a severe brain injury in an accident, and his wife Kara Stanley, explores how the Canadian couple try to embrace a new normal. "There are moments when I'm playing at a gig, and I look at my left hand and think I'm going to play this Jimmy Page rift that I really like, and all of a sudden my fingers do something completely differently from what I'm actually trying to think of...' Simon says.
I think Christa Couture deserves her own CBC program to explore disability and adaptation.
Here are some other films and articles worth a watch or read.
Between sound and silence, The New York Times
This is a fabulous short film where adults who are deaf describe what it's like to live with cochlear implants.
Children are being euthanized in Belgium, The Washington Post
An opinion piece about three children given lethal injections in Belgium. They included an 11-year-old with cystic fibrosis and a 17-year-old with Duchenne muscular dystrophy.
Matt, Healthy Debate
A fascinating interview with Matt, a young man who becomes a personal support worker for another young man who has quadriplegia and uses a ventilator after breaking his neck in an accident. I'm not sure why Matt's last name isn't identified?
Rich Donovan was the only trader with a physical disability, The Muse
Rich has a new book coming out called Unleash Different: Achieving Business Success Through Disability. Here, he talks about working on Wall Street as a portfolio manager and how he created some workarounds, because his voice can be difficult to understand.
Boy with mystery condition is worshipped as a god, Born Different
A six-year-old Indian boy with disabilities is worshipped by locals who believe he is the reincarnation of the Hindu god Ganesha.
By Louise Kinross
Goodness, we haven't done this for a long time. Below are some recent stories related to disability, parenting and health.
But first, many of you follow Meriah at With A Little Moxie. Meriah writes about parenting three kids, including one with Down syndrome, from her perspective as a mom who is deaf and lives with her family off the grid. Two days ago, Meriah posted this story called Divorce. Usually I can tell what a piece is about from the headline. But in this case, I was flummoxed. Over the years, Meriah had always included her husband, who appeared an involved partner and dad, in her writing and photos.
In Divorce, Meriah shares the story that was going on behind her posts. It was an important reminder to me of how off-base we can be about what's really happening in people's lives when we follow them on social media. It made me think about the ways I "curate" my own content.
And it made me think about how often, instead of connecting people in a real way, social media presents a sliver of the life we believe others "want" to see. We know our own posts aren't a balanced picture, but we tend to assume that others' are. And that can make us envious, less likely to connect, and more likely to keep churning out our own versions of fantasy land.
If we missed a good story below, please post the link in the comments! Louise
Virtual tour: Daniels' Accessibility Program Daniels Home is making accessible units in its condos that include a roll-in shower and balcony, hand-held shower faucet, power-operated door rough-in, wider doors, and additional wheeling room in the bathroom. These features are standard and at no extra cost. Residents pay for adapted kitchen features. These units look gorgeous! Bravo to Daniels!
Finding myself on the page The New York Times
Disabled people have to apply for 60% more jobs than non-disabled people before finding one The Independent
Will he be the driven one, or the driver? Love That Max
Raising a child with disabilities has taught me true kindness Good Housekeeping interview with Anu Nadella, wife of Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella, whose book Hit Refresh includes the story of raising his son with severe cerebral palsy.
Reflections on what I don't have to think about anymore Jennifer Johannesen
Playing the online dating game in a wheelchair The New York Times
Ontario boosting nursing, personal support in major expansion of home care Ontario newsroom
'I don't think employers see what disabled people can do' The Guardian
A hospital bullies a physician and threatens termination because of her disability KevinMD
For children with severe anxiety, drugs and therapy work best NPR
Toronto hospital aims to reduce stigma of youth with disabilities Global News (our Dear Everybody campaign)
Guelph man turns house into group home for his son Guelph Mercury
Suicidal tendencies hard to spot in some people with autism Spectrum
Ad leaders start push to employ people with disabilities AdAge
'I don't need to walk to live' The New York Times
Arresting disabled bodies New Republic
The catastrophic diagnosis: A photo essay Family Voices of CA
'Autism hour' helps cut shopping stress BBC News
'So B. It' has pluck, charm and a muddy message about disability The New York Times
Get ready for World CP Day tomorrow
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